4 seasons manual for men

Adopted from https://dana-sofie.cz/

Spring (pre-ovulation)

DO:

  • present challenges
  • ask for pragmatic solutions for problems
  • physical activities
  • talk straight
  • bring up tasks that were left over from previous phases
  • praise and motivate

DON’T:

  • stop her
  • try to keep her at home
  • ask her to do nothing
  • try romance
  • ask her to clean
  • ask her to care too much about you and the household


Summer (ovulation)

DO:

  • loving solutions for problems
  • tasks that call for cooperation, communication and care
  • praise her beauty
  • pay attention to her and spend quality time together
  • show her that you love her
  • talk to her and make love

DON’T:

  • keep her at home or by the computer
  • demand logical or structured thoughts
  • prevent her from meeting and talking to other people
  • prevent her from caring for you and home
  • forget to be romantic & express your love


Autumn (PMS)

DO:

  • tasks that need systematic approach and finishing
  • use her intuition and creativity
  • give her time and space to be alone
  • show that you love her even if she’s tired and annoying
  • take her to nature, remind her to rest
  • buy her quality chocolate

DON’T:

  • try to solve things
  • take her emotions personally
  • take her criticism personally
  • take her crying personally
  • push her too hard 
  • overload her with tasks
  • force her to be extroverted
  • stop her from cleaning

Winter (menstruation)

DO:

  • respect her need to rest and be alone
  • take kids to the park or visit grandparents
  • make her breakfast and bring it to bed
  • remind her to rest
  • give her minimum tasks
  • enjoy her sexual appetite if she shows it

DON’T:

  • push her to action and physical activities
  • force her to be with people
  • force her to communicate
  • push her too hard
  • engage her in intellectual or technical debates
  • take mess and postponed tasks personally